Many find Support Groups Help with the Healing Process

When someone close to you dies, your world changes. Feelings can range from grief and sorrow to shock and fear. The surviving person may feel guilty for being alive, or angry at a loved one for leaving them. All of these feelings are normal. There are no rules about how you should feel; and no right or wrong way to mourn.

Grief can cause a person to easily cry, have trouble sleeping, problems concentrating and making decisions as well as having little interest in food. When intense feelings linger over a long period of time, experts say a targeted or specialized support group may be beneficial by letting the person know they are not alone and that others are experiencing many of the same things they are. 

Mary Lamia, a clinical psychologist and author of the 2022 book Grief Isn’t Something to Get Over: Finding a Home for Memories and Emotions After Losing a Loved One, says, “It’s important to look for grief support that will not necessarily make you feel better, but makes you feel understood. She adds It’s not about getting over it, but learning how to continue to live with it. Also, as grief is a personal experience, it is important to find a group where you feel understood and are not judged.    

It may take time to find the right fit. Grief support groups can focus on specific illnesses such as cancer or Alzheimer’s, or the loss of a special loved one such as a spouse, child or sibling. AARP suggests when looking for a support group to start local by asking area hospice organizations and hospitals as well as senior centers or funeral homes for referrals. You can also do a national search for groups that can provide local outreach or join a support group online. 

Experts say it is important to keep in mind grief support groups are not intended to take away the pain, but rather to remember hurting is part of the healing process.  Grief counselors also say you may have to try more than one group to find one that connects with your needs. 

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Source: aarp.org/caregiving/basics/grief-resources/

Foods to Eat & Drink Before and After a Flu Shot

According to the Medical News Today website, getting a flu shot is a safe and effective way to prevent getting the flu as well as avoiding serious complications that potentially can arise with the flu. Moreover, the side effects of a flu shot are typically mild and include things like low grade fever, headache, muscle aches, and nausea; and may mean your body is building an immunity toward the virus. 

If you are someone who is hesitant to get a flu shot due to feeling ill afterward, there are things you can do before as well as after the vaccine to lessen symptoms. For someone who feels dizzy or lightheaded, it is important to know even mild dehydration can increase these feelings. Michelle Routhensteim, MS, RD, CDCES, CDN, a preventive cardiology dietitian at EntirelyNourished, recommends coming to the appointment well-hydrated and eating a protein-rich and complex carb snack beforehand. Water, an electrolyte drink or a cup of herbal tea is good for hydration; and a protein-rich, complex carb snack like yogurt with oats, can help stabilize blood sugar and reduce the likelihood of feeling faint after the shot. 

Elena Rolt, MSc, DipION, IFMCP, rCNHC, nutritional therapist at Health.Miro, explains, “After receiving a flu vaccine, the immune system initiates an inflammatory response to process the vaccine antigens, followed by the formation of antibodies by B cells to provide protection against the virus.”  To support your immune system, experts say to eat an easily digestible protein-rich meal like oily fish high in omega-3 and foods like berries, leafy greens, and mushrooms to modulate inflammation without blunting the immune system’s adaptive response. 

Just as hydration is important before your shot, it is also important afterward. Rolt says “Hydration may help reduce the severity of side effects such as headache, fatigue, and muscle soreness, while helping the body to regulate temperature.”

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Source: medicalnewstoday.com/articles/what-eat-drink-before-after-flu-shot-vaccine-questions#Why-should-you-stay-hydrated-after-a-flu-shot

Tips to Manage Blood Sugar During the Holidays

Holiday meals and gatherings can be a bright spot in the year, but they can also feel tricky if you are keeping an eye on blood sugar in assisted living Lakewood. Tables full of stuffing, pies, and sweet drinks can make it seem like you have to choose between health and enjoyment. The truth usually lives in the middle. With a bit of planning and a few small habits, you can savor the season and still be kind to your blood sugar.

Build a plate that works for your body

Before reaching for breads and desserts, take a moment to shape your plate with balance in mind. A simple guide is:

  • Half the plate non starchy vegetables such as green beans, roasted Brussels sprouts, carrots, or salad greens

  • A portion of lean protein like turkey, chicken, or fish

  • Smaller servings of starchy sides such as potatoes, rolls, stuffing, or sweet casseroles

Vegetables and protein help slow how quickly sugar from starches and desserts enters your system. Many residents in senior assisted living use this approach so they can still enjoy family recipes without feeling like they overdid it.

Treat desserts as small highlights, not the main event

Holiday sweets carry a lot of emotion and tradition. Rather than skipping them completely, think “taste” rather than “portion.”

You might:

  • Share a slice of pie or cake with someone

  • Choose one favorite dessert instead of sampling every option

  • Take a few slow bites, then set the fork down and notice how you feel

Savoring a smaller amount can satisfy a craving while keeping blood sugar changes more manageable. Paying attention while you eat, instead of nibbling mindlessly, often makes less feel like enough.

Let movement work in your favor

Activity after a meal helps muscles use glucose from your blood, which can soften post meal spikes. You do not need a workout. Often, ten to fifteen minutes is enough.

Ideas include:

  • A slow walk around the block or hallway

  • Joining a group stroll after the main meal

  • Light house tasks, such as clearing dishes or tidying the table

Make water part of the celebration

Sweet drinks, alcohol, and coffee can all crowd out simple water. Staying hydrated supports circulation and helps your body handle larger meals.

Practical tips:

  • Drink a glass of water before the meal begins

  • Keep a water glass at your place and refill it during conversation

  • Alternate water with any sweet or alcoholic beverages

Taking small sips throughout the gathering also slows your eating pace, which gives your body more time to register fullness.

For older adults in retirement communities like Morningstar Lakewood and beyond, strategies such as a balanced plate, mindful portions, a short walk, and steady water intake often become traditions of their own. They allow you to enjoy the flavors and the company, while still waking up the next day feeling steady enough to do it all again.

Bed Sores in the Elderly

The Mayo Clinic explains bed sores, also called pressure ulcers, pressure injuries and decubitus ulcers, are an injury to the skin and the tissue below the skin. They are typically caused by long-term pressure on the skin and most often occur in bony areas of the body such as the heels, ankles, hips and tailbone. 

People who are most at risk for bedsores are the elderly and those with medical conditions that prevent them from changing positions or moving; or spend a majority of time in a bed or chair. Most bedsore can heal with treatment but some never completely heal. 

A complication of bedsores is cellulitis, an infection of the skin and surrounding soft tissue. The condition may cause the affected skin to change color and appear inflamed. Infections from bedsores can also result in infections that attack the joints or bones, and damage the functionality of that area of the body.  A rare, but life-threatening, complication of bedsore, is sepsis. 

Experts say to avoid bedsores, change positions frequently, take care of your skin, avoid smoking, and if you can, exercise daily. If you have mobility issues and are in a wheelchair or confined to a bed, reduce the pressure on vulnerable spots by getting help to reposition yourself every two hours.  If you are in a wheelchair and have enough upper body strength, raise your body off the seat for a few seconds by pushing up on the arms of the chair. In addition, ask your healthcare providers about special cushions, wheelchairs or mattresses designed to relieve pressure. Experts say if you have an adjustable bed, avoid raising the head of the bed above 30 degrees. 

To care for your skin, use a gentle cleanser and pat the skin dry. Check for signs of bedsores daily, and if you see any signs of infection, contact your healthcare provider. Change clothing and bedding frequently and watch out for things like buttons or wrinkles in the bedding that can irritate the skin. 

At the MorningStar of Beaverton senior living community, we deliver style, comfort, services, amenities and location for a carefree lifestyle. Our 66 assisted living and independent living suites come in a choice of floorplans and configurations (some as large as 974 square feet) and are designed with high-end finishes and safety features. For those with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood provides 38 all-inclusive memory care suites. Contact us to set up a personalized tour of our beautiful retirement communities.  

Source: mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/bed-sores/symptoms-causes/syc-20355893

Medicare Terms to Know to Help Make Better Decisions

Enrolling for and/or making changes to a current Medicare plan can be confusing and the more you know about the program, the more helpful it is. The Medical News Today’s website states learning how the health program works can help avoid errors, including missing enrollment periods, overlooking costs, and choosing unsuitable plans.

To help you avoid costly mistakes and result in not getting the most appropriate medical coverage, experts advise learning as much as you can about the program. One easy way to start is to learn Medicare terms.  

Medical News Today explains the following terms:

Out-of-pocket cost: This is the amount a person must pay for care when Medicare does not pay the total amount or offer coverage. Costs can include deductibles, coinsurance, copayments, and premiums.

Premium: This is the amount of money someone pays each month for Medicare coverage.

Deductible: This is an annual amount a person must spend out of pocket within a certain period before Medicare starts to fund their treatments.

Coinsurance: This is the percentage of treatment costs that a person must self-fund. For Medicare Part B, coinsurance is 20%.

Copayment: This is a fixed dollar amount a person with insurance pays when receiving certain treatments. For Medicare, this usually applies to prescription drugs.

Additionally, it is important to understand Medicare plans. Original Medicare is Part A (hospital insurance) and Part B (medical insurance). Medicare Advantage is known as Part C and is managed by private insurers. Part D offers separate drug coverage. Medigap is a supplemental plan that helps pay costs such as deductibles, premiums and coinsurance not covered by Original Medicare. If you have further questions, visit Medicare.gov. 

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Source: medicalnewstoday.com/articles/medicare-enrollment-common-mistakes?